Reason, Season, Lifetime

Just earlier, a Facebook Wall Post caught my eye. Normally i think wall posts are full of shit, especially those forwarded messages ( ie. send this to xxx amount of friends and see how many forward it back to you!!). But i found this message pretty meaningful. sad, but upon reflection, pretty true. People come into your life for a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.

Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Be lieve it, it is real.

But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind

but friendship is clairvoyant.

Emo as it may seem, i think its pretty true.

Its been 15 days ever since that fateful episode. God, it still hurts and sucks like hell. BUT i'm not going to focus on you anymore because ive wasted enough time of my limited life pinning and hoping for something you could never give me. I dont know how long it will take but fuck it, im going to take my time and get it right. You were ,after all, only a Season in my life

* 2 more days to i sell my law textbook!!!!